Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Women who are themselves

I know, I know, it's cliche.  "Guys really want a girl to be themselves, blah blah blah."  I get it.  But it really is true.  (on a side know, I hate when people say, "I know it's cliche, but it's really true."  Because by saying that, it in itself has become the new cliche.  I only said it to show you what I mean.  Okay, let's continue!)  Girls are constantly bombarded with why they aren't good enough.  Magazine articles about make up, commercials with really attractive women sitting on a white couch in their pajamies talking about how their hair feels smooth and shiny, the internet constantly filled with perfect breasts and ass, and models on the Victoria Secret runway.  Geez, we guys don't have to deal with that, we just get to enjoy it =) 

The truth is, you women have it hard.  Physically it doesn't seem to matter what you do to change, they'll always be one more shade of eyeliner or one more botox injection to make you closer to perfection.  But based off who's expectations?  Sure men want women to look good, but so do companies and the media who sell you this crap.  If they told you you are good just the way you are, they would lose billions!  It's like the oil companies supporting fuel efficient cars--it is not in their best interest.

Women who can filter out messages of being imperfect shows their inner strength and allows them to be themselves.  A woman who acts herself makes an average looking girl a 10 out of 10.  For example, Olivia Munn.  Don't get me wrong, she's hot on her own merit.  BUT!  Considering Maxim's Hot 100 List ranked her 96 this year, I think if they took her personality into account she would be number 1.  Olivia does not care what people think, she acts the way she finds comfortable.  She's extremely comfortable with her sexuality (which, by the way, couldn't turn on a man more since so many women aren't comfortable at least talking about it in public).  She's not afraid to talk about "vagina juices" or swear to make a humorous point  or even go as far as take ten shots of Chalula hot sauce in an attempt to beat Kevin Pereira at a contest (she lost by one).  It's her personality that allows her to essentially not give a fuck and just be herself.  She's not trying to be something she's not, she's only be who she is.  And that is all a man can ask for.

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