I've been thinking about all the girls that i've dated throughout my life. I seriously feel that, each in their own little way, they've been CRAZY! Each one of them has some kind of quirk wrong with them that seriously seems like some form of insanity.
Is this in all women? Or am I just simply attracted to the crazy ones?!"
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"Is this in all women? Or am I just simply attracted to the crazy ones?!?”
Umm, both? Ha ha. It's not just women. Everyone has their own quirk. But you may be referring to more than a quirk, like something obsessive. Women are known to be more neurotic, but that's really only the case if they haven't worked on themselves. When a person looks internally, figuring out who they are and what they want from life, they'll be a lot more mentally stable.
I'm glad you acknowledged the possibility you're the real problem. If all the girls you've dated have some sort of issue, then the common factor with all of them is you. You might not be attracted to the crazy aspect of a woman, but attracted to others qualities that usually only come from irrational beliefs in a woman. Let me explain.
Some women are extremely sexual and need constant physical attention. As a man, you may like that... a lot! But the reason they need so much physical attention is because they subconsciously need attention in all areas of life due to a lack of attention as a child. So, yes she's attached in bed, but also attached in the rest of your life. She will be extremely jealous of your friends (especially those of the opposite sex), have emotional moods swings like no other, and be really clingy. So you're attracted to her tremendous sex drive, but that comes along with the other unhealthy attitudes she has towards relationships.
The best thing for you to do is see a therapist and find out the commonalities between what's been wrong with all your girlfriends. Then you can see what really attracted you to each of them. Finally discover, if at all possible, if the traits you were attracted to are connected in any way to the traits you don't like. Then you can create a compromise of, let's say, a little less sex drive in exchange more a little more sanity? How does that sound?
~ Anthony
Umm, both? Ha ha. It's not just women. Everyone has their own quirk. But you may be referring to more than a quirk, like something obsessive. Women are known to be more neurotic, but that's really only the case if they haven't worked on themselves. When a person looks internally, figuring out who they are and what they want from life, they'll be a lot more mentally stable.
I'm glad you acknowledged the possibility you're the real problem. If all the girls you've dated have some sort of issue, then the common factor with all of them is you. You might not be attracted to the crazy aspect of a woman, but attracted to others qualities that usually only come from irrational beliefs in a woman. Let me explain.
Some women are extremely sexual and need constant physical attention. As a man, you may like that... a lot! But the reason they need so much physical attention is because they subconsciously need attention in all areas of life due to a lack of attention as a child. So, yes she's attached in bed, but also attached in the rest of your life. She will be extremely jealous of your friends (especially those of the opposite sex), have emotional moods swings like no other, and be really clingy. So you're attracted to her tremendous sex drive, but that comes along with the other unhealthy attitudes she has towards relationships.
The best thing for you to do is see a therapist and find out the commonalities between what's been wrong with all your girlfriends. Then you can see what really attracted you to each of them. Finally discover, if at all possible, if the traits you were attracted to are connected in any way to the traits you don't like. Then you can create a compromise of, let's say, a little less sex drive in exchange more a little more sanity? How does that sound?
~ Anthony
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